How do I escape the friendzone?

This question is so commonly posted all over the internet. You would think, for such a common question, I am going to give you a brand new answer in massive detail. No, sorry. This question has been answered before and quite well. I will just cover the good advice that people before have already given.

Firstly, the misconception is that girls place you in the friendzone. In most cases, you actually place yourself in the friendzone. The way this works is that you usually are not giving any sort of indication that you are sexually interested in the girl you are talking to. If you are making a move, it is usually in a pathetic ‘please sit in the driving seat, I can’t handle this’ way. By you not making your intentions clear, your potential of becoming something more than a friend is diminished.

If it is not obvious, you must make your intentions clear to the girl that you like her if you want any chance of ‘escaping’ the friendzone. [See my post on making a move] I cannot guarantee that this will work, as with any advice I give you. I suggest you say something more along the lines of ‘You have really grown on me and I was wondering if you would like to go on a date with me’ or just be completely honest and just own up to the fact that you didn’t have the courage earlier. Just please do not ‘hit on her’ or make a pass or anything because that is just ruining any chance you have.

Girls can place you in the friendzone because you do not reach their standards. There isn’t much you can do about this, but one thing you shouldn’t do is moan about it. Being friends with a girl is fine, she could change her mind about you later or introduce you to other girls who might be interested in you. Being friends with a girl is a very common way people get into relationships. Please do not avoid friendships with girls, as they have as much potential as a guy to be the best friend you ever make.

Libalou Timmerghhhh x



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